I’m here. I am back. But in reality, I never left. I just haven’t written. Haven’t felt it. Haven’t prowled the dating sites. I have read other blogs, been on twitter. All kept to a minimum. Haven’t responded to likes or messages, but will say I am a teeny bit glad I still have views and likes. Sometimes, life seems to move forward, and we stay still. Sometimes, you need to do just that.
I have been somewhat inactive in the dating world. And full disclosure, not that it is directly related, in the exercise world too. That I am paying for, trying to get back on track. Though, when you think about it, It could be related. Exercise is good for the body and soul. Makes me more energized , but I still have to force myself to do it. I did find out one can get tennis elbow in both elbows at the same time, and never have played tennis at all. EVER. Which brings me to the lack of exercise. Needed to rest both elbows. They are rested and ready to tackle the evil elliptical again. But I digress.
My elbows have nothing to do with lack of motivation on dating sites.
Dating, even the idea of dating, got stale. As you get older, the choices change, but the stupid messages do not.
I did hear from two guys I had dated before. Communication is good, but distance has put a damper on things. I’m not dead. Just took a hiatus from the rat race of dating sites. I feel a fresh look would be best. Scroll through the photos, and you see so many familiar faces you have seen before. Then I realized the men are probably saying the same thing.
Plain and simple, I get bored. Maybe it is an age thing. Maybe being single for so long, I’m just done and will wait for Prince Charming to fall into my lap. Though by then, Prince Charming will be using a walker and will be on social security. Bottom line, I am very content as is. Though that could be translated by some as being in a rut. Who knows the answer? We do get complacent. Life moves forward, things are good, so why upset the apple cart?
Time will tell. Maybe when other things are back on track, I will get a new attitude and/or outlook.
Don’t worry, you will be hearing from me, whether it is to bitch about dating or other things I can find to bitch, I mean write, about. Like that is a problem.