Here is a conversation that took place with someone I actually had gone out with a few times. We had a decent time together. Good conversation, a bit boring at times, but enough where we went out more than once. We met for a drink a couple of times and then this phone call.
He: “Would you like to go out? “
Me: “Sure. When and what did you have in mind?”
He: “ Oh i dont know . I can come over.”
Me: “I thought you meant go out.”
He: “Oh we can just watch a movie at your place.”
Translation: I want to come over and we will have sex.
Second attempt, about a week later
He: “Well, what are you doing this weekend? Lets get together.”
Me: “What did you want to do ?”
He. “Hmmm maybe I can come over.”
Translation: I want to come over and we will have sex
Third attempt. a few weeks later
He:” I cant wait to see you. ”
Me: “Actually, I am not feeling well. I think I am getting a cold.”
He: “Oh you don’t feel well? Don’t worry I can take care of you”. “wink wink.”
Translation: I can come over and we will have sex.
Few days later
He: “I thought I would come over.”
Me: “Well I dont know. Lets go do something.”
He: “ Oh come on. Havent seen you in weeks.”
Me: “Lets meet up somewhere.”
He: “Oh , do you have wine?”
Translation: I could always come over and we can have sex.
He: “But if you dont , that is ok.”
Translation: We don’t need wine to have sex.
There are times persistence pays off. Then there are the times where it does not.